by Laura Drake
I’d win
the award for the weirdest research trip EVAH. Don't believe me? Read on.
I wrote a Women's Fiction, Days Made of Glass. My main character is a woman bullfighter. Not the Spanish,cape-and-tights kind, the American rodeo kind. When a bull rider is thrown, these guys step between a pissed-off bull and the downed rider.
Yeah, in a
word - NUTS.
To my knowledge, there has never been a female professional
bullfighter, so the concept and potential for conflict intrigued me for a long
time. I was dying to write that book.
As a more than decade-long fan of bull riding, I know
everything that could possibly be gleaned from watching it on TV, seeing events
in person and talking to bull riders. I corresponded with several bullfighters,
who generously offered to answer my questions (the photo above is of one of
them). But to write about a woman who attends a bullfighting school, I would
need to know a lot more.
Have I told you how much I love the internet? I looked up
rodeo schools in Texas, and came across Lyle Sankey's Rodeo
School. I emailed him, and he wrote back right away, and told me to
come on down!
Lyle
Sankey (on the ground) and his staff.
My husband and I drove to New Caney, outside Houston, over the
Memorial Day weekend. I really didn't know what to expect, but I showed up
at 8 am on Saturday armed with a notebook, pen and tons of questions.
I learned a lot of technique and strategy, not only about
bullfighting, but all the rough stock events: bull riding, saddle bronc and
bareback riding. Even if that was all I'd learned, it would have made the trip
worthwhile.
But I learned so much more.
The students ranged from 7 (!) to their mid-thirties. There
were two girls. Some students wanted to do this for a living, some wanted to
try it for the adventure. Lyle and his staff were amazing. Teaching someone to
ride a bull requires more than just knowledge -- the instructors were
constantly watching to be sure that the student wasn't only listening,
but hearing. When you're scared out of your mind, you don't pay as close
attention as you would otherwise. Many times I heard the bull-riding coach say,
"Stop! Look at me." Then, in a calm voice, he'd make sure that what
he was saying sank in. After every ride the coach would go over with the
student what he did right, what he did wrong and how to do better the next
time.
First,
lots of practice.
7-year-old
Carl, stretches before his ride.
The transformation in the students in three days was amazing.
Not only in their skills, but I could see their confidence and self-esteem
rise, hour by hour.
Lyle was teaching life lessons along with bull riding. At one
point, a teen was getting ready and the bull leaned on his foot against the
back of the chute. He whined. Lyle admonished him, "It's time to Cowboy
Up. That isn't just a slogan on the bumper of a pickup, you know." The kid
was embarrassed and mad. He rode for two jumps, was bucked off
and stomped out of the arena. Lyle followed him, talking the whole way. The kid
wasn't buying it. Lyle went back again ten minutes later, when the kid had calmed
down and was more likely to listen.
You can't pay someone to care that much. Lyle is a special man,
who really cares about people.
In listening to Buddy Bush, the bullfighting coach, I learned
more about what a rodeo life is. They seem like dirt-road gypsies. The life is
much harder than I'd realized. But watching Buddy's face as he told me stories,
I could see how much he loves it. He believes he's the luckiest guy out there.
Isn't that what everyone's looking for?
Me,
with Buddy Bush, Bull fighter and coach
Thanks to the research, and Lyle Sankey, the bullfighting in my
book is authentic.
Oh, and in case you’re
wondering, I didn’t get on a bull, or in the arena with one.
But if I were twenty years
younger, I would have!
Laura Drake is a New York published author of
Women's Fiction and Romance. Her debut, The Sweet Spot, won the 2014 Romance
Writers of America® RITA® award. She gave up the corporate CFO gig to write
full time. She's a wife, grandmother, and motorcycle chick in the remaining
waking hours.
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Love it, Laura! What an awesome trip.
ReplyDeleteWOW that was an awesome time to get to do!!
ReplyDeleteLaura,
ReplyDeleteWhat a great experience. I love it!