Autumn Reflections

A young woman I know remarked that she felt like a failure at life and motherhood. I promptly disagreed. Everyone has regrets in hindsight. No life is perfect. But this lady is a loving mother and intelligent woman who had no need to feel this way.

By the time this posts launches, we'll know the outcome of the election. Regardless, I think we can all agree our country is not the same as it was a few decades ago. It's easy to get dragged down by the challenging economy and all the negativity. 

Don't.

Don't let the media tell you what your neighbor thinks. Get to know them. Love your neighbor. And stand up for your country. Those two things are not mutually exclusive.

Seek truth. Don't believe everything you're told. Verify.

Our society has lost the art of mature debate and civil discourse. Take some time to listen to what the other side is saying. You might be surprised at what you discover.

Love one another. Be kind. Say things that lift others up, not tear them down.

Be thankful for every single thing you have. Pick at least one blessing every day and voice your thanks. You'd be surprised how quickly that can turn your attitude around.

Have you hit rock bottom? Are you starting over in life or your job? 

Don't give up.

I hope you all have a happy, safe Thanksgiving with the people you love.

I'll leave you with a quote that often gets passed around among writers, but it's a good reminder for anyone.