We've Come A Long Way, Baby...on having one.
Had I lived during that time, my son and I would surely have died. Although my first son, close to 10 pounds, was a normal delivery, my second son turned sideways and lodged his hand in the birth canal. The resulting emergency c-section saved us. In those days, we just wouldn't have survived, period. On a side-note, his position was a predictor of things to come. He's had his hand out ever since. *smile*
In the old west, there was nothing akin to what we have to ease the "agony" of labor. No epidurals, no spinals, no Lamaze training to help prepare the mother... nothing. Women went through grueling hours of pain to bring a child into the world, and many babies died in infancy because of widespread diseases and unsanitary living conditions. More than a few mothers died too, from the inability to stem bleeding or from infections passed during delivery. It wasn't at all uncommon to see a family cemetery started behind a homesteaders shack, with crosses marking the names of babies and mothers lost during childbirth.
Imagine giving birth in the back of a Conestoga wagon, often while the wheels bumped over a rutted trail in the middle of nowhere. It took something major to halt the wagon train before day's end, and something as commonplace as birthing wasn't a reason.
What I can't understand because I'm such a wimp is why women today want to suffer through childbirth without drugs. I respect their right to feel every cramp and consuming pain, but having a child is when "just say no to drugs," doesn't make sense to me.*smile* Had I survived, I might have parented one child, but that would have been my limit.
Pregnancy wasn't reason enough for pioneer women to take it easy. They still met the responsibilities of their households; some even plowing fields and sowing seeds for the very crops on which their futures depended. I doubt that a complaint of swollen ankles went very far to shirk their duties.
Let's consider the Indian women of the time period. Warriors believed that a bleeding woman was possessed by evil and could zap their strength, so during a woman's menstrual cycle, she was isolated the entire time--usually in a specially built place deemed the 'women's lodge.'
This same tepee or structure was used for birthing children, and taboo for the men. When a woman's labor began, she and the tribe's medicine woman along with a few female relatives retired to the lodge for the birthing ceremony. Most tribes were very superstitious and took great care to pray and chant over the mother and the babe she carried. The Plains Indians, specifically, cherished their children, considering them a gift from Waken Taken, their heavenly father. If you think a visit to your modern delivery room is scary, read on, my friend.
Usually in the women's lodge, a long narrow trough was dug in the dirt floor and a pole sunk deep into the earth. The laboring mother squatted over the indention, grasped the pole, and pushed until the baby was delivered. The afterbirth was caught in the trough, while the baby was swaddled in soft pelts and dried with moss. The child's umbilical cord was kept in a specially beaded pouch. Lakota Sioux tribe used two pouches; one to hold the real cord and the other to fool the evil spirits. The one containing the cord was hidden in the baby's cradleboard until he/she was old enough to wear clothing and then hidden within their attire. This was done to protect the little one from harm.
So ladies, consider the advantages we've shared and the leaps and bounds the medical field has taken to make childbirth a safer and less painful process. I'm grateful every day that I live in an era that made it possible for both of my children to be born, safe and healthy. I also pay special homage to the person who created the epidural and the medication administered during my cesarean so I didn't have to be awake while someone dug around in my insides. *lol* Hey...for those of you who stayed awake during your surgery...Kudos. When they asked me if I wanted to remain alert during the delivery, I didn't just say no...I said, Hell No!
Given a choice, would you choose squatting over a trough or giving birth in a nice, clean hospital room? That should be a no brainer. :)