Showing posts with label Thanksgiving. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Thanksgiving. Show all posts

Monday, November 24, 2025

Thanksgiving Blessings ~ Ruthie L Manier

 

Finding Gratitude in a Year of Change:  As the crisp air of November settles in and Thanksgiving approaches, many of us pause to reflect on the past year and count our blessings. For my family, this year has brought its share of loss and heartache, making gratitude feel a little harder to grasp. Yet, in the midst of sorrow, I’ve found comfort and joy in cherishing the good times we’ve shared together. Today, I choose to focus on those moments that filled my heart and brought smiles to our faces.

Time with Family: The Greatest Gift This year, both my mom and sister retired, and their newfound free time has become an unexpected blessing. We finally have the chance to spend more meaningful moments together, sharing stories, laughter, and the everyday joys that come with being close. After so many years of busy schedules, just being able to sit together has become a treasure I never want to take for granted.

Adventures with My Children: My children truly spoiled me this year, surprising me with tickets for visits and adventures that I’ll never forget. Holly took me to see the majestic Niagara Falls and made sure our experience was unforgettable by treating us to a tour on the famous Maid of the Mist. Standing beside her and the kids in front of the roaring falls, I felt overwhelmed by the beauty and the love that surrounded me. We also visited the peaceful shores of Ontario Lake, soaking in the calm and the laughter of those moments together.

Grand Canyon Memories with Jon Kyle: My son, Jon Kyle, and his family invited me to join them for a few days exploring the awe-inspiring Grand Canyon. We started our adventure by riding the train from our hotel in Williams, Arizona, where we were greeted by wild Mavericks running alongside the tracks and the delight of a pretend train robbery — a fun surprise that made us all laugh. On the way back, they took me through Sedona, Arizona, with its breathtaking red rocks and serene landscapes. The beauty of Sedona captured my heart, and I hope to return one day to experience it all over again.

Holding Onto Thankfulness: This Thanksgiving, I am thankful for the precious time spent with my loved ones, for adventures that brought new memories, and for the simple moments of joy that helped heal our hearts. While this year has tested our resilience, it’s also reminded me to cherish the people and experiences that make life beautiful. As I look forward to gathering around the table, sharing stories and laughter, I am grateful for the blessings that shine through even in difficult times. Wishing everyone a Thanksgiving filled with love, connection, and gratitude. May we all find moments to celebrate, no matter what this year has brought.

Saturday, November 23, 2024

Thanksgiving-read ‘Ten for Dinner’ ~ Ruthie L Manier

The Holidays are here! In my family the holidays begin with my mom’s birthday on November twentieth and then Thanksgiving. I love the holiday season and this is the reason I decided to write my Celebrations collection in 2024. I began with A Miracle For Santa’ in Deember of 2022 which led to a follow up in De-cember of 2023 with ‘A Journey To Believe.’ Ienjoyed writing them so much I simply had to do more. there are now eight in the Celebrations collection whith holidays stories that will touch your heart. Below, are chapter one and two of ‘10 for Dinner’ a short story you will enjoy, especially if you have a large family with a lot of quirks. Holiday Worries One week before Thanksgiving. “Martha, that turkey you call “Girty” is the biggest we have ever had. It is going to be the juiciest turkey, too,” husband Garrett said, licking his lips. “Oh, stop. Your mouth is watering, GD,” Martha replied. “You know it is my favorite holiday. I love the delicious food and pies you make. It’s so good,” Garrett added, rubbing his belly. Then, he leaned down and kissed her warmly. Martha brushed her long brown hair before pulling it back into a loose bun. Then, she added, “Thank you, but your turkey steals the show every year.” “Any fool can cook a turkey, my love. But it takes a master chef to make the rest of dinner and dessert,” her husband replied. A few quiet moments passed as husband and wife prepared for the day ahead. “GD?” “Yeah?” “Here it comes. She is concerned about the kids,” he thought as he continued buttoning his flannel jacket. “Do you think all the kids will show up for Thanksgiving dinner this year?” Martha asked, her blue eyes filled with worry. The subject was a sore spot for GD. He paused before answering, but his mind raced. The darn kids are constantly acting up, fighting with each other, and stressing out their mom. This fighting must stop. I’ll drag them by the hair to get them to Thanksgiving dinner if I must. “Martha, they wouldn’t miss your Thanksgiving dinner for anything in this world,” he replied. Martha rolled her hair into the bun she wore during daylight hours. GD’s kind words did not fool her. Their children had been sharing harsh words for a while. She prayed they could resolve their differences soon. Garrett grabbed his keys off the duck-shaped wall key hook and sat his cowboy hat on his head. “I will be out on the north pasture. If you need me, call. I will come running,” he added. “My knight in shining armor,” Martha replied. She beamed as she watched him go. After forty years of marriage, she still loved him with all her heart. “I don’t know about that, Martha, but I will ride up on my black stallion, dirty work clothes and all,” he said and winked as he disappeared through the opened door. Martha muttered a silent prayer that her children would resolve their differences and began her morning chores. CHAPTER 2 Warning for All From the barn, Garrett called his son, Charles, who answered on the first ring. “Hi, Dad.” “Chuck, I am glad I reached you,” Garrett said. “Me too. What’s up? Are you and mom okay?” “Yes, we are good. I hope you are doing well. I know you are busy, so I will get straight to the point. I need your help.” “Sure, how can I help you?” “You might not want to agree so fast; this task will be more difficult than you think. Your mom wants all of you kids at Thanksgiving dinner. With so many feuds festering between your brothers and sisters, Martha is afraid some of them will not show,” Garrett explained. “I understand her concern. Those idiots, Trapper and Randall, still are fighting over that mustang from years ago. That’s gone on far too long,” his son replied. “Agreed. And what about the girls?” “You are talking about Harley and Maddy. I think they are still bickering over that guy they both liked five years ago.” “Yep, it has them all bickering and taking sides. Do you think you can help me to persuade them to set their quarrels aside long enough to enjoy Thanksgiving together?” Garrett asked. “I can’t promise anything, but I will do my best.” “That is all I ask, Chuck.” “See you on Thanksgiving morning, Dad.” “Looking forward to seeing you and the family. Take care, son.” Garrett ended the call, feeling confident his eldest child would intervene and convince his siblings to be civil for their mother’s sake. Next, Garrett called his eldest daughter, Samantha. “Good morning, Dad. Is everything okay?” she inquired. “Good morning, Sam. We are both well here on the ranch. I know you are a busy woman. So, I will jump to the point of this early morning call. Your mother wants all of you kids home for Thanksgiving dinner.” “Where else would we be? Of course, we will be at the ranch with you and Mom,” Samantha replied. “That is good to hear. Have you spoken to your sisters or brothers about Thanksgiving?” “Some of them. I had lunch with Maddie and Des yesterday. They said they were planning to attend.” “That is great!” Garrett said. “I do not understand why Mom is worried. We all show out of respect for you and her. I know how much everyone loves your turkey and Mom’s cooking. How they interact with each other is what you need to worry about, don’t you think?” “That is a concern that bothers me. If a firestorm over stupid things in the past erupts and they ruin your mother’s day, your brothers and sisters will have to deal with my wrath,” he warned. “Oh, no. I will pass this along to the others,” Samantha said. Her father chuckled and said, “See that you do. Have a nice day. I will see you on Thursday.” “You, too, Dad. I love you,” she added before ending the call. “I love you too! Bye for now.” “Bye.” Garrett knew his eldest daughter would spread his message to the rest of the family. Word would spread like wildfire on the range. Confident his children would show up for Thanksgiving and behave like adults, he finished saddling his horse. He rode to the north pasture, assured peace would prevail on Thanksgiving Day. Now, he had to finish his work before dinner time. Martha did not like it when he was late. I hope you enjoyed this preview of ‘10 for Dinner.’ Happy Thanksgiving to all of you and your loved ones❤ What’s Next?
A heartwarming read of empty nesters with a pending divorce after the Christmas holiday. Can a Red Stone be the answer to all their problems?

Tuesday, November 12, 2024

A Thank You to Those Who Served

 Post by Doris McCraw

aka Angela Raines

November is a month when I ponder and consider all the reasons I am thankful for. Thanksgiving is by far my favorite Holiday. November also has Veteran's Day. While we usually remember our servicemen and women, I want to take the time to honor all those who have served over the years, especially women, in service to their country and causes.

Image (C) Doris McCraw

From Deborah Sampson and Sybil Luddington in the Revolutionary War, Dr. Mary Walker in the Civil War, and Dr. Rose Kidd Beere in the Spanish-American War to those who served as nurses, doctors, and combatants in recent conflicts.

Women have always served their countries, not just in the United States. From the Viking Warrior to the women warriors of the Indigenous People, we honor their commitment.

Esther Walker - Veteran of the Civil War
Image (C) Doris McCraw

So, as we prepare to end the year, take some time to thank those who have served, both men and women and remember their sacrifice. We are their beneficiaries.

Until Nest Time

Doris McCraw




Friday, November 8, 2024

Happy Thanksgiving

I'm taking a break from blogging this month, but I wanted to pop in and wish everyone a happy Thanksgiving. 




Wednesday, November 6, 2024

Sarah Josepha Hale & the Thanksgiving Holiday (Repost from 2020) ~ Julie Lence

courtesy NNDB 

 Sarah Josepha Buell was born October 24, 1788 in Newport, New Hampshire to parents who believed in education for males and females. Her growing up years she received an extensive education and married lawyer, David Hale. The couple had 5 children, but sadly, David died during their 9th year of marriage, leaving Sarah to raise their children. To earn an income, Sarah began writing poetry, and penned the famous, Mary Had a Little Lamb. She teamed with Reverend John Laurie Blake and helped establish American Ladies Magazine, taking on the position of editor. She moved to Boston and remained there until 1837, often using the magazine to promote women’s issues such as education, child rearing, and reinforcing a woman’s domestic role. She didn’t support the suffragist movement or women entering politics because she believed both would limit a woman’s influence in the home, that women shaped the morals of society and encouraged them to write morally uplifting novels.

 

courtesy NHPR.org

Louis A. Godey bought out America Ladies Magazine in 1837 and changed the name to Godey’s Ladies Book. He offered Sarah the editor position. She accepted and moved to Philadelphia, where she remained editor for 40 years. During that time, she championed civil rights, secured funds to preserve George Washington’s home and to construct the Bunker Hill Monument, both of which are still open today, and helped found Vassar College for women.   

 




courtesy Wikipedia

Throughout her childhood, Sarah celebrated Thanksgiving. She published Northwood: A Tale of New England in 1827, which included a chapter on the Thanksgiving celebration. Many areas in the northeast part of the country celebrated Thanksgiving, but at the time she was editor for Godey’s, Thanksgiving was not a federal holiday. Hoping to rectify that, she began lobbying state and federal officials to pass legislation to make Thanksgiving a national holiday, going so far as to set the holiday on the last Thursday in November. Her requests were mostly ignored, nor was she the first to suggest such a day of thanks. George Washington called for a national day of thanks after the Revolutionary war, and both John Adams and James Madison issued their own proclamations. Nothing was ever done until the Civil War.

 

courtesy wsj.com

Confederate president, Jefferson Davis, issued Thanksgiving Day proclamations in 1861 and 1862. Abraham Lincoln called for a day of thanks in April 1862 and the summer of 1863s, and Sarah continued to lobby for a national holiday by sending letters in September to Lincoln and William Seward, who was Secretary of State. She firmly believed a national holiday might ease the tensions between the north and the south and finally realized her hard efforts when, one week after receiving her letter, Seward drafted Lincoln’s official proclamation making the last Thursday in November an official day of Thanksgiving. 

 

A true pioneer for women, Sarah retired from Godey’s 1877. She died two years later in her Philadelphia home at the age of 92. She’s buried in Laurel Hill Cemetery and a blue historical marker resides at her home on Spruce Street.  

Thursday, November 10, 2022

Autumn Reflections

A young woman I know remarked that she felt like a failure at life and motherhood. I promptly disagreed. Everyone has regrets in hindsight. No life is perfect. But this lady is a loving mother and intelligent woman who had no need to feel this way.

By the time this posts launches, we'll know the outcome of the election. Regardless, I think we can all agree our country is not the same as it was a few decades ago. It's easy to get dragged down by the challenging economy and all the negativity. 

Don't.

Don't let the media tell you what your neighbor thinks. Get to know them. Love your neighbor. And stand up for your country. Those two things are not mutually exclusive.

Seek truth. Don't believe everything you're told. Verify.

Our society has lost the art of mature debate and civil discourse. Take some time to listen to what the other side is saying. You might be surprised at what you discover.

Love one another. Be kind. Say things that lift others up, not tear them down.

Be thankful for every single thing you have. Pick at least one blessing every day and voice your thanks. You'd be surprised how quickly that can turn your attitude around.

Have you hit rock bottom? Are you starting over in life or your job? 

Don't give up.


I hope you all have a happy, safe Thanksgiving with the people you love.

I'll leave you with a quote that often gets passed around among writers, but it's a good reminder for anyone.




Monday, November 29, 2021

Decorating the Christmas Tree through History ~ Ruthie Manier


Welcome to my blog on Cowboy Kisses!

 I hope you had a wonderful Thanksgiving filled with love, laughter, and a delicious dinner. Mine, like most people I think was fast paced. So many family members to gather with through out the day.

First, in the morning we carried on the tradition we started last year with a pie baking contest. Holly and Nick won again! The kids love the tradition of eating pie with ice cream or whipped cream for breakfast. No surprise there.

After My daughter Holly’s family went to her in-laws and the dishes were done with the food put away, my son and his family drove me to see my mother. We surprised her.


 My mom had ten children so is used to cooking enough food for an army. It was around eleven thirty and Thanksgiving dinner was on the table. I knew it would be. We didn’t come to eat after just eating pie a couple of hours before, however when mom says “Fix yourself a plate,” that’s what you do! So, we ate. 

After visiting an hour or so we drove home and five hours later I served Thanksgiving dinner for my family that lives with me.

Here’s a few pictures from my day. 





On to Christmas

The other day I was shopping and everywhere I went had lit Christmas trees up. It started me thinking about the history of Christmas trees of the past. My grandma Ruby Moore who was born in the early nineteen twenties told me about some things like stringing popcorn and berries. She taught me how to string them and I taught my children and we strung them for years while they were growing up. 

She also told me that the ornaments were mostly homemade. Crocheted, knitted, cross stitched. They made little red stockings, bells, angels, wreaths and rocking horses, and stars, basically anything they wanted. 

Sweet cookies were made and hung.

Berries, nuts and fruits.

Ribbons and bows.

Hand carvings out of wood and sometimes painted. 

Many used winter foliage that they would stuff in the trees to make them look fuller.

Homemade candles held on by wax or pins were used to light the tree up. As you can imagine this practice caused lots of fires. 

Candleholders became the next  popular way to illuminate the tree. 

Around nineteen fifteen beautiful glass balls and lanterns were invented replacing the candles. 

The first actual tree lights were invented by Thomas Jefferson yet it was his friend and co-worker Edward Johnson who was the first to show the walnut sized lights off on a tree. The first colors were red, white, and blue. 

New York was where the first tree was lit up by the electric lights. 

President Cleveland was the first president to light up the Christmas tree in the White House. 

String lights became available around 1890. They were not affordable for the general public until 1930. At first because the string of lights were expensive at twelve dollars a string which would average today at around three hundred and fourth many people rented them.

Do you know what the reasoning behind the lighting of the Christmas tree was for?  I didn’t until I googled it. From what I read it was to remind us that ‘Jesus Christ is the Light of the World.’ Another thought was that the tree was lit to remind us to be the light in someone else’s life. 

Have a joyous holiday season!

Ruthie

Wednesday, November 3, 2021

A Thanksgiving Tradition ~ Julie Lence

 

Courtesy of Time Out

The holiday season is fast approaching, and with Thanksgiving one of my favorite holiday’s to celebrate, I’m stepping out the Cowboy Kisses realm of ‘all things western’ to talk about one of my favorite traditions—The Macy’s Thanksgiving Day Parade. My mother was born in Germany. When she was seven, she came to the United States with her parents. Jackson Heights, Queens in New York City became home until she and my father married. Mom moved upstate and as my brothers and sister and me came along, visiting her family in the city was a treat, and something we did about 4 times a year. At least one of those occasion was New Year’s Eve to  celebrate Christmas, and some years we visited to celebrate Thanksgiving. Of those occasions, I can remember going to the parade twice.

Mom and Dad would bundle us in warm clothes (it’s hard to remember a winter back then without frigid cold and piles of snow) and we’d head into Manhattan for the parade. I can’t tell you for certain where along the parade route we sat, but I can say the route was at least 10 people deep, with adults letting the children sit on the curbs. We shivered, we fussed and whined, and through it all, we had fun. The clowns would talk with us, we heard marching bands play and sometimes one or more of the celebrities would sing at our exact spot. And, of course, we couldn’t wait to get back on the subway (always a thrill to ride) and return to the warmth of Grandma’s house and dinner. (One thing I remember was my Dad’s mother in upstate telling me she saw a girl on tv with the same color coat as me, hinting it was me she saw. But I know now Grandma was doing what all Grandma’s do—making her granddaughter feel special!)  

Rowland Hussey Macy
Find A Grave

Debuting in 1924 as The Macy’s Christmas Parade, the parade ties with America’s Thanksgiving Parade in Detroit as the 2nd oldest parade in the U.S.  Philadelphia’s Thanksgiving Parade is the oldest.  Born August 1822 on Nantucket Island, MA, Rowland Hussey Macy is the founder of Macy’s Department Store. At 15 years of age, he left home to sail the Atlantic, returned 4 years later and met with no success on owning and operating 2 stores. He also had little success working for his brother-in-law and left the east coast for California’s gold rush. California proved a bust and he returned to Massachusetts and opened a dry goods store in Havervill with his brother, but left there to open his own store in a low-rent area of New York City. By clearly marking prices on items for sale and advertising those prices in newspapers, he finally met with success. Employing the 1st in-store Santa Claus, Macy played a major role in creating Christmas in America for both retail and religion. He was also the first businessman to promote a saleswoman to store manager, making Margaret Getchell the 1st woman to hold an executive position with a major American retail company. He is also responsible for the red star in the Macy’s logo, an idea he got from the red star tattoo on his arm from when he sailed the Atlantic. Macy passed away in 1877, with 11 connected buildings on 13th and 14th Streets in Manhattan, NY.    

Courtesy of Vintage News Daily

In the early 1900’s, the closest thing New York City had for a Thanksgiving Day parade was (which some said was annoying) the tradition of children painting their faces and wearing tattered clothes and going door-to-door asking for pennies, apples and candy. With Philadelphia’s Gimbel Brothers Department store hosting the 1st Thanksgiving Parade in 1920, and Detroit’s JL Hudson Department Store chiming in to host their own parade in 1924, Macy’s jumped into action with their Thanksgiving parade the same year as Detroit. On a sunny November 27th morning, at the intersection of 145th Street and Convent Avenue, a police escort led the start of the parade, which overlapped with church services but ended in plenty of time for parade watchers to attend the Syracuse/Columbia Universities football game at the Polo Grounds. The route was 6 miles, from Harlem to Herald Square, and boasted Mother Goose floats such as The Old Woman Who lived in the Shoe, Little Miss Muffet, and Little Red Riding Hood. Macy employees wore cowboy, clown and knight costumes, and bears, elephants, monkeys and donkeys from the Central Park Zoo appeared in the parade. 

Courtesy of Vintage News Daily

Rounding out the parade was Santa Claus sitting on top of a mountain of ice in his sleigh pulled by reindeer. The official end time in Herald’s Square was noon, with thousands of people cheering on the arrival of Santa, who climbed a ladder and sat on a gold throne on the marquee above the store’s 34th Street entrance. The parade was a huge success with those in attendance that Macy Department Store announced the next day they would host another parade the following year.

Felix the Cat
courtesy of The Hatching Cat

The roars of the animals from the zoo weren’t well received, (nor did the animals care to be in the parade) and Macy’s quickly did away with them, adding helium filled balloon characters to replace them. Felix the Cat was the first to awe the crowds, and many followed, such as Snoopy and SpongeBob Square Pants. Marching bands and singing celebrities were added, as well as musical numbers from Broadway shows. The length of the parade route increased and the Rockettes were invited to dazzle young and old with their famous legs. Today, all the above and more wow in Herald Square, Santa Claus continuing to arrive at noon and officially mark the start of the holiday/Christmas season, all thanks to Rowland H. Macy for not giving up on his dream of owning a successful store.       

Courtesy of Going Places, Near & Far

      

  

Tuesday, November 24, 2020

~Time for the Great Turkey Roundup~

 This week we will all eat ourselves into a coma and smile with each bite. In 1863, Abraham Lincoln signed into law a proclamation establishing the fourth Thursday as a Day of Thanks across our nation. It is the one and only time, we throw the idea of, "How many calories did you say this was?" out the window and in it's place, we say, "Another slice of pie, please." before we head to the living room, crank up the recliner, and watch the football game through the back of our eyelids.

But, back when our nation was just being settled, a Thanksgiving meal had many a variation, all though all of it some of the best. We might sit down to sweet potato casserole, green beans, collards, cornbread and/or oyster stuffing, cranberries, hot rolls, mash potatoes, gravy and of course turkey. Folks in the California gold fields might have sliced a watermelon. In Senora, Mexico, Elizabeth Le Breta Gunn made 6 pumpkin pies, 2 cranberry pies, and Rooster Pie. (My guess is he crowed one time to many under her window.)

In Nebraska around 1863 the Governor urged his female constituents to get their turkey's ready or it was only 15 days till the holidays. Why, even the prisoners in San Quentin went all out. They decorated their forlorn walls with flags, flowers, and evergreens. They roasted mutton, roasted pork, had apples, peas, pies, and cakes. Cities in the Midwest, spread their tables with Blue Point Oysters, Little Neck Clams, calf's brains, buffalo tongue, red snapper, black bass, salmon, capon, turkey, duck ribs of beef, veal, quail stuffed with truffles, elk, squirrel, opossum, shrimp, pompano, asparagus, artichokes, puddings, pies, cream macaroons. I can see why it would take 15 days to create such a feast!

But whatever you serve, it is a holiday to come together as a family. This year, will be harder. This year like in 1918, we must protect our families from what we might have come in contact with so that come Christmas or Easter, WE can gather together.

So, set that table. Leave on place for your computer. Gather in Zoom or other programs that allow you to see faces, to hear voices, to gaze upon those who you hold dear. It's still Thanksgiving. But, I would rather you do so, because I'm selfish. You see, you are my friends. To lose even one of you would be a tragedy more than my heart could bear.

I will leave you with my heart felt wishes for a wonderful holiday. Love those near and far. Visit virtually. Loosen those belts. Give thanks for elastic, and have a wonderful Thanksgiving. 



Norman Rockwell's Thanksgiving Dinner also known as Freedom from Want. Painted as part of the four freedoms and inspired by President Franklin Roosevelt's 1941 speech. It was finished in 1942 and used in the March 6th, 1943 Saturday Evening Post. 


Until next time, 

Nan O'Berry

Wednesday, November 4, 2020

Sarah Josepha Hale and the Thanksgiving Holiday By Julie Lence

courtesy of NNDB

Sarah Josepha Buell was born October 24, 1788 in Newport, New Hampshire to parents who believed in education for males and females. Her growing up years she received an extensive education and married lawyer, David Hale. The couple had 5 children, but sadly, David died during their 9th year of marriage, leaving Sarah to raise their children. To earn an income, Sarah began writing poetry, and penned the famous, Mary Had a Little Lamb. She teamed with Reverend John Laurie Blake and helped establish American Ladies Magazine, taking on the position of editor. She moved to Boston and remained there until 1837, often using the magazine to promote women’s issues such as education, child rearing, and reinforcing a woman’s domestic role. She didn’t support the suffragist movement or women entering politics because she believed both would limit a woman’s influence in the home, that women shaped the morals of society and encouraged them to write morally uplifting novels.

courtest of nhpr.org 
Louis A. Godey bought out America Ladies Magazine in 1837 and changed the name to Godey’s Ladies Book. He offered Sarah the editor position. She accepted and moved to Philadelphia, where she remained editor for 40 years. During that time, she championed civil rights, secured funds to preserve George Washington’s home and to construct the Bunker Hill Monument, both of which are still open today, and helped found Vassar College for women. 

   
courtest of Wikipedia
Throughout her childhood, Sarah celebrated Thanksgiving. She published Northwood: A Tale of New England in 1827, which included a chapter on the Thanksgiving celebration. Many areas in the northeast part of the country celebrated Thanksgiving, but at the time she was editor for Godey’s, Thanksgiving was not a federal holiday. Hoping to rectify that, she began lobbying state and federal officials to pass legislation to make Thanksgiving a national holiday, going so far as to set the holiday on the last Thursday in November. Her requests were mostly ignored, nor was she the first to suggest such a day of thanks. George Washington called for a national day of thanks after the Revolutionary war, and both John Adams and James Madison issued their own proclamations. Nothing was ever done until the Civil War.

courtesy of wsj.com 
Confederate president, Jefferson Davis, issued Thanksgiving Day proclamations in 1861 and 1862. Abraham Lincoln called for a day of thanks in April 1862 and the summer of 1863s, and Sarah continued to lobby for a national holiday by sending letters in September to Lincoln and William Seward, who was Secretary of State. She firmly believed a national holiday might ease the tensions between the north and the south and finally realized her hard efforts when, one week after receiving her letter, Seward drafted Lincoln’s official proclamation making the last Thursday in November an official day of Thanksgiving. 

courtesy of Pennsylvania Historic Preservation 
A true pioneer for women, Sarah retired from Godey’s 1877. She died two years later in her Philadelphia home at the age of 92. She’s buried in Laurel Hill Cemetery and a blue historical marker resides at her home on Spruce Street.  











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Wednesday, November 21, 2018

Thanksgiving with the Cowboy President



It’s true!  Theodore Roosevelt, our 26th President, was known as the Cowboy President. 
Always an outdoorsman, TR first journeyed to the Dakota Badlands in 1883 to hunt buffalo. By the end of that trip, he had purchased the Maltese Cross ranch and entered the cattle business.  Although Teddy didn’t stay out west, it was the place closest to his heart and which inspired his future conservation and environmental efforts.
      Sadly, five months after his return, both his wife and his mother passed away on the same day. Aged only twenty-five, Roosevelt was already involved in politics, and after the Republican Convention in June, 1884, he headed west to seek solace from his overbearing grief.  His herd at the Maltese had wintered well that year, and he decided to increase his stock and bring out two men from Maine, who had served as hunting guides, to manage it. Roosevelt then selected a site for a second ranch, thirty-five miles from Medora, ND, and named it the Elkhorn. The remains of that ranch are today part of the Theodore Roosevelt National Park, which covers 3 separate sites.
     The Elkhorn eventually had an eight-room house and various outbuildings, and continued as a ranch until the horrendous winter of 1886/87 decimated the herd by 60%. Now living in New York and pursuing his political career, Roosevelt eventually sold the Elkhorn in 1890.  And maybe that was lucky for us because, aside from leading the Rough Riders up San Juan Hill in the Spanish-American War, becoming NY State Governor, and eventually winning the Nobel Peace Prize for his work ending the Russo-Japanese War in 1906, TR as President created no less than five national parks, added land to Yosemite NP, and designated eighteen sites as national monuments.  I know someone who might learn something from this….
But I digress….

Back in New York, the Roosevelt home was located in Oyster Bay, Long Island. Sagamore Hill is now, itself, a National Monument, and as you can see from its furnishings in these photos, it gives a pretty good nod to TR’s cowboy life.  And like any red-blooded hunting man, TR’s appetite was prodigious, if fairly plain. He could eat an entire chicken at one sitting, or half a roast suckling pig; his son claimed that TR’s coffee cup was the size of a bathtub (a remark often made about my own mug, I must admit) and he would have seven cubes of sugar per cup. The Roosevelt dinner table was not elaborate, and was generally garnered from the estate itself:  dairy from its own herd; home-baked breads; preserves and vegetables harvested from the kitchen garden and orchards; fish from the bay.



It might be no surprise, then, that the Roosevelt Thanksgiving dinner menu was pretty close to that of most Americans, with the possible addition of the roast suckling pig. It started with oysters on the half shell, and garnishes of celery, radishes and olives, followed by a consommé. The main course was the traditional roast turkey, chestnut stuffing, and a giblet gravy, plus that roast suckling pig.  The sides included cranberry sauce (of course!), spiced crab apples, spinach, mashed potatoes, onions in cream, and Brussels sprouts. The Roosevelts had their salad after this, and desserts of mince pies, pumpkin pie, vanilla ice cream, nuts, fruits, chocolates, and ended with coffee. I’m sorry to note that sweet potatoes do not play a role.

It’s very unlikely that the Roosevelt’s cook would have used frozen cranberries, if such an item was available, but I’m going to end this post with my recipe for the only cranberry sauce—more a relish—that I’ll eat:  Take one large juicy orange and quarter it; do not peel but remove the pips.  Put in a blender and chop roughly. Add one 12oz bag of frozen cranberries (if you use fresh, you’ll have to cook ‘til they pop, about 10 mins., and drain thoroughly) and 2oz. of shelled walnuts. Process to rough chop, not puree. Add 2oz. superfine sugar and leave for at least 2 hours before serving. A treat!

And I’ll tell you what else is a treat:  to curl up after Thanksgiving with a lovely Christmas western romance.  The weather is cold, the atmosphere is festive, and the cowboys are hot. How do you keep a cowboy at Christmas?

Don’t miss this holiday collection of modern-day cowboys and the women they love, featuring USA Today, Amazon Bestselling, and Award-Winning authors.


CHRISTMAS, LIBERTY, AND THE THREE MINUTE MAN by Carra Copelin
Daniel Dylan Layman is determined to show headstrong city girl Liberty Ann Hart that a country life in Mistletoe, Texas, is the perfect Christmas gift.

A CHRISTMAS CAROLE by Andrea Downing
Carrie Matheson and her son are trying to settle into a new life in Wyoming. Tate Schrugge is trying to ditch his Scrooge and play Santa to the young boy. But will there be a Dickens of a romance by Christmas?

THE PEPPERMINT TREE by Kristy McCaffrey
Lawyer Skye Mallory returns home for the holidays due to an unexpected inheritance and cowboy Joe Carrigan stands in her way.

THE DEVIL’S CHRISTMAS KISS by Devon McKay
When Kristen Kelly receives a Christmas kiss from Cole Lawson, she doesn’t believe it means anything. But Cole sets out to make things right with the woman of his heart.

SLAY BELLS by Hildie McQueen
At a small-town Christmas festival sparks fly between Carmen Dias and Detective Jared Bowden, but a dead body and a pesky ex-girlfriend don’t exactly spell romance.

THE BEST CHRISTMAS by Hebby Roman
All Sofia Rossi wants is to re-connect with her estranged son. But can Gar McCulloch, a handsome cowboy who runs a juvenile rehab ranch, be the answer to all her problems?

COUNTING DOWN TO CHRISTMAS by Patti Sherry-Crews
Wedding planner Melody Evans views happily-ever-after endings with a skeptical eye. Veterinarian Leland Jennings IV thinks Christmas is for kids. Can the holiday spirit bring them together?

Available at https://www.amazon.com/Christmas-Cowboy-Keep-Contemporary-Collection-ebook/dp/B07JF6LYWD/

                                                      HAPPY THANKSGIVING


With thanks to The American Heritage Cookbook, Penguin, 1964
Photos public domain, thanks to the National Park Service via Wikimedia Commons. 

Wednesday, November 26, 2014

Thanksgiving Poem and link to more #thanksgiving

Roar from the Bunkhouse
Nary a thing to eat Thanksgivin'
   Only tin can truck!
Gettin' tired of such a livin',
   Blame the orn'ry luck!
Nothin' only beans an' bacon
   Pard, excuse these tears!
Seems jest like we've been fursaken
   Darn this punchin' steers!

Folks back home are jest a-stuffin'
   Turkey-meat an' pie;
At them feed-fests there's no bluffin';
   Gosh, it makes me sigh!
No sich dinner for us fellers
   In this camp appears;
Turkey ain't fer cowboys' smellers
   Darn this punchin' steers!

Weather soggy-like an' murky;
   Makes me mighty blue;
Thinkin' of Thanksgivin' turkey
   Makes me h'umsick, too.
Sour-dough bread an' canned tomaters
   Ain't th' grub that cheers;
Oh fer pie an' mashed pertaters!
   Darn this punchin' steers!

Bunkhouse bunch are sick as blazes
   Bein' fed this way;
Gettin' so th' maynoo raises
  Sam Hill ev'ry day!
ev'ry mother's son a-kickin'
  When th' truck appears!
Never git a sniff o' chicken
   Darn this punchin' steers!

Same ol' bread an' beans furever!
   Gosh, we'd like a change!
Reck'n we won't git it never
   While we ride th' range!
Oh, fer some o' mother's cookin;
   That's th' dope that cheers!
Guess my callin' I've mistooken
   DARN this punchin' steers!

by E. A. Brininstool, from Trail Dust of a Maverick, 1914

I'm so sorry that I didn't come across the Thanksgiving poetry page sooner so I could obtain permission to reprint all those pertinent, but the best I can do is share the url and hope you will enjoy the works of some talented poets who capture the essence of Thanksgiving in the Old West.

http://www.cowboypoetry.com/


Here's wishing all my friends the happiest of Thanksgivings!!!

Friday, November 23, 2012

Thanksgiving Gift


As many of you know, I'm Canadian and our Thanksgiving was last month. Since Under A Texas Star is, funnily enough, set in the United States, I feel like I should celebrate the holiday with my my characters. It's a bit of a departure for the blog, but it's a holiday, right?

A Cherryville Thanksgiving


Adele Gumm fussed over the sash on her best dress and then mentally chastised herself for such foolishness. Who was going to care what an old maid wore to dinner, even if it was at the Doctor’s house. It wasn’t as if she had a proper mirror to check herself in. The square glass over the wash stand was just big enough and clear enough to look for stray chalk smudges and loose strands of hair.

She adjusted the sash again.

The pale pink silk had stood up well to years in a trunk. Nor had the rose satin sash lost any of its colour. Certainly, both still whiffed a bit of cedar and lavender, but it wasn’t an unpleasant smell. If she put a sprig of lavender in her hair...

She pushed the thought away.  She was a school marm, not a debutante. Those days were decades behind her. This dress was one of the few relics of that time and she wouldn’t have pulled it out if Rebecca Pincus hadn’t insisted. She only hoped she didn't look like mutton dressed as lamb.

There was a business-like knock on the door.

“Sheriff Langtree! What in heavens?”

The sheriff was always neatly dressed but today he was in his best frock coat and wore an elaborately knotted black cravat.

He gave her a small bow. “The Doc and Mrs Pincus asked if I would drive you into town.”

This was utter foolishness. The school and Adele’s nearby cabin were, strictly speaking, outside Cherryville proper, on land granted primarily because it was mostly useless. Cherryville was quickly growing outward and the walk to the Doctor’s house wouldn’t have been more than a half a mile.

It was more foolish to argue.

“Very well,” said Adele. She reached for her cloak which, unlike her gown, was best described as serviceable. She draped her work-a-day cloak over one arm and looped the other through the sheriff’s. It was late November, which meant the heat of the Kansas summer had finally given way to comfortable temperatures. The night would be cool, hence the cloak, but for now Adele was quite comfortable as she was driven into town in the doctor’s surrey.

The first – and almost last time she wore the pink gown, she rode in a proper carriage. An aunt had invited her to Boston to meet society and find a husband. If she made a good match, her aunt would do the same for Adele’s younger sister Elizabeth. Instead, Adele found love and ran away with a junior officer. His commanding officer assured the young couple that he would give his permission for the wedding after the regiment sorted out some problems in Texas.

“You all right, Miss Gumm?”

“Just fine, Sheriff. Keep your eyes on the road.”

Everything hardship Adele endured grew out of that one impulsive decision to run away, including, she had to admit, the loss of her own niece who ran after that ne’er do well con artist Charlie Meese. That snake in the grass who fooled her, Adele Gumm, into thinking he’d be a fine match for young Marly.

“I said I’m fine, Sheriff Langtree.”

“We’re here, Miss Gumm.”

Adele took a deep breath. “I’m sorry, Sheriff. My mind was elsewhere.”

“Would you like a moment to compose yourself?”

“Thank you, sir.”

Now Sheriff Langtree would have been a better match for Marly, if she had only seen it. A little old for her, perhaps, but he would have taken care of her and kept her close. Instead, her niece had taken up with a Texas Ranger. A southerner. Two strikes against him. Texas had taken away the love of her life and southern rebels had taken away her beloved sister.

She sighed. No. The war in Texas had taken Joseph away from her and while a reb had killed her sister, another had saved Marly. Further, she had no one to blame but herself that Marly then ran away from her home.

“I’m ready, Sheriff.”

Langtree whistled up one of the neighbourhood boys before swinging Adele lightly to the ground. He tossed the boy a nickle to take the horse and equipage to the livery, then offered his arm to the lady.

Rebecca met them at the door. “Adele, you look lovely!”

Adele gave a slight sniff to show that such things weren’t important to her, then unbent enough to murmur, “Always liked this dress.”

“Well, you look twenty years younger, doesn’t she, Seth?”

Doctor Pincus took Adele’s cloak and gave Adele an appraising once over. “Miss Gumm has always been a model of good health. Further I shall not say lest I make my wife jealous.”

Adele smiled at the jest. It was a Thanksgiving dinner, after all. She should enjoy herself and be thankful instead of dwelling on her losses.

When Joseph was killed, Elizabeth, who had no interest in a being a Boston debutante introduced Adele to the society of abolitionists, whose cause the two sisters took up. Together with Elizabeth’s new husband and newer baby girl, they emigrated to Kansas, determined to make the new territory free. Adele had been back east, raising funds and awareness for the cause when Elizabeth died, but she was reunited with her niece. That was something to be thankful for, as were the years of trouble and delight the headstrong girl brought her.

The chatter of voices in the parlour cut through Adele’s thoughts.

“How many people are here tonight? You should have let me bring something. I could have made my green bean casserole.”

Rebecca grinned. “After insisting on you put on your finery for the evening, I wasn’t about to ask for more. Come on, my dear. There are a people waiting to see you.”

Adele was used to being greeted by silence when she walked into the classroom. She had her students well trained. She didn’t usually have this effect elsewhere.

Parson Garfield was looking practically slack jawed. Since he was also chair of the School Board, Adele hoped she wasn’t in for a dressing down because she had dressed up.

Mrs Ripley was looking a bit sour. As the banker’s wife, she was used to wearing the finest dresses at any party. Her husband was looking at her with undisguised appreciation and that was more worrying.

There were two other people in the room. Adele pegged the tall, muscular young man as a lawman and wondered if he was a friend of the sheriff’s. The woman on his arm was simply, but elegantly dressed in an ivory gown almost as fine as her pink silk. Her auburn hair was pulled up into a Grecian knot with curling tendrils framing her very familiar face.

“Marly?”

“Aunt Adele?” The young lady pressed her hands to her cheeks. “Wow!”

Adele laughed. That was her Marly. You could dress her up but...

That’s as far as Adele got in her thoughts. Marly was crushing her in a tight hug. Words like “Sorry” and “I’ve missed you” and “You wouldn’t believe” tumbled out of the girl’s mouth in a confusion until Adele held her at arm’s length.

“Look at you. A hero and a lady all at once.”

“And look at you, Aunt Adele. Jase isn’t going to believe you’re really my old aunt looking like that. You’re gorgeous!”

Introductions followed. The tall, handsome lawman wasn’t bad for a Texas. Jason Strachan was a good name. She had seen it in the telegram the sheriff sent back when he found Marly and was pleased that it was pronounced properly “Strawn”, not phonetically "Strack-ann".

“Now, Aunt Adele, don’t be angry,” Marly said, looking genuinely worried, “but Jase and I have already been married. He insisted. Said he had to make me respectable.”

Jase groaned and looked heavenwards.

“Good luck with that,” said Adele.

“That’s what I said too,” said Marly. “I’m sorry we couldn’t wait to marry, but we haven’t had our wedding supper yet. That’s tonight.” Marly turned to Parson Garfield. “We’re hoping you’ll do a blessing or something.”

Adele started to laugh. It wasn’t long before everyone – with the possible exception of Marly – joined in. Rebecca recovered first and ordered everyone into dining room.

“You can bless the bride and groom later,” she told the parson, who had managed to nab the seat next Adele’s. “First, let us give thanks.”

HAPPY THANKSGIVING!